tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post647892120764963007..comments2023-05-02T08:16:44.560-06:00Comments on Freezer Buns: BFN and Hope, You BitchDenisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11238040997371351013noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-15108852589783345662008-03-23T20:10:00.000-06:002008-03-23T20:10:00.000-06:00im so sorry Denise! I dont know what i can say to ...im so sorry Denise! I dont know what i can say to make it better.<BR/><BR/>Just want to share with you a thought i hold on to dearly after my bfn, "Patience will get us there"tintedskyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07459695990111904180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-34042871919487736622008-03-22T10:17:00.000-06:002008-03-22T10:17:00.000-06:00I'm so sorry!!!I'm so sorry!!!Optimistichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05200013616475471598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-81977403143511208572008-03-21T17:45:00.000-06:002008-03-21T17:45:00.000-06:00Arrgh!! So sorry! How courageous of you to focus ...Arrgh!! So sorry! How courageous of you to focus on the positives, because really, that's the best thing to do. When it does work for you next time, all of this will seem a million miles away. If Dr. S thinks it's possible, I'm sure it is as I've heard he doesn't mince his words.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-73555656316890967602008-03-20T16:07:00.000-06:002008-03-20T16:07:00.000-06:00I am soooo sorry, Denise. Damn those BFN!!! You ar...I am soooo sorry, Denise. Damn those BFN!!! You are in my thoughts...I wish you lots of luck in your next cycle! Be strong!Georgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08315009197157452620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-70659036780202518112008-03-20T12:25:00.000-06:002008-03-20T12:25:00.000-06:00Just wanted to let you know I am thinking about yo...Just wanted to let you know I am thinking about you. Hugs!Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05440669083897313929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-72868255797477049422008-03-20T06:41:00.000-06:002008-03-20T06:41:00.000-06:00I'm so sorry...I don't even know what to say, but ...I'm so sorry...I don't even know what to say, but I wanted to let you know that you are being thought of.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14048243639634834643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-2483859632736180152008-03-19T18:10:00.000-06:002008-03-19T18:10:00.000-06:00I'm so sorry, Denise. I was really wishing - along...I'm so sorry, Denise. I was really wishing - along with you and everybody else - for the opposite outcome. I hope you can take care of yourself or let others take care of you in the ways you need this weekend - you don't need to be a ball of sunshine right now. It's ok to just be yourself - sad, hopeful, and whatever else comes up for you.<BR/><BR/>You'll be in my thoughts and prayers this weekend even more than usual.annacyclopediahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10461037288546901657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-86090682094119996042008-03-19T16:08:00.000-06:002008-03-19T16:08:00.000-06:00Aww dude...I'm so sorry. That sucks hardcore. You'...Aww dude...I'm so sorry. That sucks hardcore. You're doing a great job staying positive and looking forward. I'll always be rooting and praying for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-28195705909357421372008-03-19T15:55:00.000-06:002008-03-19T15:55:00.000-06:00G&K are incredibly saddened to hear this news. We...G&K are incredibly saddened to hear this news. We are impressed and proud of the strength and determination you are showing. Also...G&K don't want you to do anything this weekend that will make you uncomfortable or sad. We understand the freshness of this news. Please take care of yourself first.Kristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17521710682038155164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-30387002613077336162008-03-19T14:21:00.001-06:002008-03-19T14:21:00.001-06:00Denise, I am so sorry. You are so incredible and I...Denise, I am so sorry. You are so incredible and I wish I had better words to give you. I agree with Melanie - keep hope around and in teh meantime drink lots of wine.Iohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00918928563224342054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-29451187247069279232008-03-19T14:21:00.000-06:002008-03-19T14:21:00.000-06:00:( Oh Denise, I am so sorry that this cycle didn't...:( Oh Denise, I am so sorry that this cycle didn't work. I wish I had something more eloquent to say. I am so very, very sorry. Even with this crappy (to say the least) news, you have such<BR/>determination and an amazing positive outlook. <BR/>Take care of yourself. I'll be thinking of you.~Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01150507125522079497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-37079566486366668452008-03-19T14:10:00.000-06:002008-03-19T14:10:00.000-06:00mutha fuckin shit balls.Denise, I'm just so sorry....mutha fuckin shit balls.<BR/><BR/>Denise, I'm just so sorry. I know that me feeling sorry for you doesn't make this any better. Who wants someone's damned "i'm sorrys" when all you wanted was a bfp. Its just fucking unfair is what it is. You deserve so much more and it just sucks that you didn't get it this time. <BR/><BR/>I just wrote a big thing about this to someone else yesterday. The aspect of having to go through all of this to finally get our bfps. To be the "lucky" ones to know just how much we really want to be a mom. To not just get it without really ~knowing~ where we stand on the subject. I can't tell you how many people I know who were wondering whether or not to have kids and then their pregnancy made the decision for them. But for us, we knew. WE made the decision. And not only did we make the decision, we tried hard and long for it. We made sacrifices. We KNOW. I'm not saying that the love of someone who didn't have to try is any different than the love of someone who went through hell and back. But I can tell you that the luckiness we feel IS different. The deserving IS different. I bet you that none of those horrible people who do terrible things to their children are women who went through IF. We just know how precious everything we end up with is. It IS different for us. <BR/><BR/>And when you finally do end up with your BFP and a baby in your arms, all of these failures will be worth it. All these failures will still suck, but it'll be worth it. If it takes us a few huge hurdles (ivf) to get our bfp, then that's what has to happen. But without trying and failing, we'll never make it to that success.<BR/><BR/>Denise, my heart is just broken for you. I'm truly sorry.nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04479202205264710056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-832709745820913202008-03-19T13:57:00.000-06:002008-03-19T13:57:00.000-06:00Crap, that blows. But my gawd you have a good doct...Crap, that blows. But my gawd you have a good doctor - with cell and vacation and all!<BR/><BR/>On him being so positive, it's hard isn't it? Mine's the same - determined to make this happen, sure it will, and while I appreciate that he thinks so sometimes I get annoyed thathe's so damn positive cuz it hasn't happened and maybe he's just in denial. It's hard to let people hope for you...Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02519495904693373900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-81759289031652150562008-03-19T13:50:00.000-06:002008-03-19T13:50:00.000-06:00I don't know if the first one went through, so I'm...I don't know if the first one went through, so I'm sending all my love again.<BR/><BR/>I am so sorry you have to go through this. But I am thrilled to hear that hope in your voice. And I know it WILL happen. We are just destined to cycle right around each other. But only one more time until success.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04961938730572984348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-56251252188744703272008-03-19T13:04:00.000-06:002008-03-19T13:04:00.000-06:00I'm so so sorry. That's terrible news. I am so sor...I'm so so sorry. That's terrible news. I am so sorry you are going through this.Blubbalicioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12035984048845752331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-71535431734231132672008-03-19T12:14:00.000-06:002008-03-19T12:14:00.000-06:00I'm sorry, sweetie. While the good list is long, ...I'm sorry, sweetie. While the good list is long, I wish the bad list was empty. Especially of the one thing listed.Lollipop Goldsteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020874415819057995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-3036045013377802082008-03-19T12:03:00.000-06:002008-03-19T12:03:00.000-06:00Denise, I don't know what to say to make you feel ...Denise, I don't know what to say to make you feel better. Maybe nothing, but give you a hug. All I can say is sorry, so sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-67953190914405043832008-03-19T11:36:00.000-06:002008-03-19T11:36:00.000-06:00Im so sorry Denise--I was thinking about you this ...Im so sorry Denise--I was thinking about you this morning, and was sad to read this news. BUT-your positive list is a GREAT one...and the hope is not gone at all! <BR/>Enjoy all the wine you wish! (ill have some for you too) ;)JJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18027548058304720360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-16717838965366252092008-03-19T10:54:00.000-06:002008-03-19T10:54:00.000-06:00Denise, you have had to deal with so many disappoi...Denise, you have had to deal with so many disappointments just since I started reading your blog, and you amaze me with your optimism and strength. I am so, so very sorry that this is the news, and it is so unfair. Please take care of yourself.. you have a great doctor, and a great spouse, and I KNOW this will work for you. I know it.Ahuva Batyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17432567017520114856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-65363061335604639222008-03-19T09:54:00.000-06:002008-03-19T09:54:00.000-06:00Oh Denise, I am just heartbroken. I am glad you pi...Oh Denise, I am just heartbroken. I am glad you picked a kiss a$$ bottle and have such a good doctor. I am so sorry. Hang in there with the fam this weekend.Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14515461272152076902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-11285828230057796522008-03-19T09:09:00.000-06:002008-03-19T09:09:00.000-06:00Crap. Just crap.I agree with your assessment abou...Crap. Just crap.<BR/><BR/>I agree with your assessment about Hope. It took me years to forgive her for leading me on so.<BR/><BR/>So sorry, Denise.<BR/><BR/>XOLori Lavender Luzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15394441222262940632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-50563202735604099112008-03-19T07:59:00.000-06:002008-03-19T07:59:00.000-06:00Oh, honey, I'm so sorry. This has been quite a wi...Oh, honey, I'm so sorry. This has been quite a wild ride and so frustrating. I think having your family around this weekend will bring you a great deal of comfort - just be gentle with yourself.Mrs.Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03810703338888705439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-15079127214278993352008-03-19T07:53:00.000-06:002008-03-19T07:53:00.000-06:00It sounds like you have a really good doctor who t...It sounds like you have a really good doctor who truely cares...he gave you his cell phone # to call while he was on vacation (I bet his wife loved that!) I think his dedication will pay off for your shortly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-58114952822985898222008-03-19T07:25:00.000-06:002008-03-19T07:25:00.000-06:00Denise, You sound like you have an EXCELLENT docto...Denise, You sound like you have an EXCELLENT doctor that is 100% dedicated to getting you pregnant. I hope that thought continues to make you feel hopeful through all of the hard times.Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02772905759431761116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2039879775629118855.post-44184042663686498962008-03-19T06:43:00.000-06:002008-03-19T06:43:00.000-06:00Denise, it's crap news. But the hope is good stuf...Denise, it's crap news. But the hope is good stuff. The bullshit reality is that sometimes getting what you really, really want isn't easy. I believe, like your doctor, it's going to work for you. And you've got good company among those of us who aren't getting any breaks on this infertility path either. Hang onto the hope, but do drink lots of wine.Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08725936391366111773noreply@blogger.com